In a couple of years ago, wanted to do an online verification, see how many couples have had sex before marriage, but because the friend's words gave up the motivation. He said the verification is not practical, we ask you to check now how many men can accept to wear the red coat, 20 years ago, very few people can accept, but are unable to accept are vintage! Again, I think the topic is due a few days ago and a friend chat. She said she was familiar with my boyfriend for almost a year, get along very well, and prepare to get married this year of their marriage. However, in the last few months, every time two people meet, boyfriend requires having sexual relations with her, initially requested and begged for, and later refused to see her, he moved up to her rough and even bullied her with dirty words now and then.
She said her heart was like the boy, just because of his compare network tradition, wanted to leave that married after getting married. But the man was holding a departure, and threatening, she said, if the marriage cannot be having sex before marriage, would break up with her. So, she asked me what should I do? Do all men require sexual relations before marriage? They do, and for what?
My answer is that most men required premarital sex are understandable, but also have concrete analysis of concrete conditions, in General, the man for sex before marriage, but the following five reasons: First, the identification of their virginity
In modern society, although virginity isn't a commendatory, but almost every man want to marry one's own is a Virgin, and the men still have virginity complexes. Based on this complex, make sure you can find a Virgin home, some men will, despite the woman's repeated objections and refused to rack their brains trying asking "who try to".
Try if the other side is the Virgin, well dispelled before her marriage marriage concerns if not virginity test, will be going to make, or even break up escape. In short, they are not promised to put yourself at any risk to marry a non-Virgin home societies more open, more virginity less, they will try to eat this "reassured".
In this regard, our view is that men's Virgin complex was understandable, even worthy of pity. But that, regardless of the woman's feelings with their own narrow beggar-thy-neighbour, even despicable conspiracy activities, it is extremely sad and shameful.
Second, the interest, and can't wait to I always thought that men experienced sexual behavior are far from mature. Because they cannot exchange of feelings and details of, feeling how women should be men touch, the touch is also not for, promiscuity is patient, gentle and brutal. And for a married not married you, and there is no good or women who are reluctant to give you body may just love, understanding and patience.
In our view, if this is done, it is a kind of love, is this love that makes them become rational, became able to suppress Fang interest, has forced it to stay, becoming able to balance between desire and responsibility, and that mature later than just obtained by sexual maturity to be reliable, long-term and much more effort.
Third, thought only to him, is really in love with him Honestly, I still don't understand such an absurd--popular on the network likes him for him. So I cannot help but ask: difficult to climax does not make a woman love a man will have to put a body on him, and this must be before marriage, he couldn't give her any protection before marriage? I think even this claim is neither logical, and differences of friendship, right? No love for no reason under the Sun, much less pay for no reason.
Any thing to offer, is only willing to reliable, only come true. Otherwise, any imposed or cents with private stoop, is immoral and absurd.
Here, you want to say to all men who hold this idea is: If you really love her, and wanted her, it would be really good to her, true to her, solve all of her worries, dispel any fears in her heart, so she did it willingly and wholeheartedly give you.
The four tested sex after marriage In real life, although it seems there are many reasons for the failure of the marriage, but more than half of them have orgasm and sex life is not harmonious relations. So, on this level, I am not against the man for sex before marriage. Just a pity that, in real life can quite simply there is this idea of a man is not a few, they may give more weight to still own pleasure during sex, women can be happy, often care less considering the so-called test of marital harmony probably also comes from personal experience.
Of course, it is important to note that, both harmony of living sex orgasm or not, is not easily proven from short-term cohabiting before marriage, because everyone has a different cycle, there is life and work pressure are constantly changing, and most importantly through sexual techniques is probably can cover over the dissonance. So, for this reason, though not unreasonable, but mostly just an excuse.
The five, only desire, there is no love As for this last reason, do not want to talk about, because even the most minimal technical skills are not, after all is the philandering, marriage as bait to cheat on you and he went to bed. From these men repeatedly falling out of love with your mouth, it can make people laugh their heads off, not only effects the environment, and defiled the Holy Spirit. If women want to believe these lies, that nature can only blame.
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